Kate Long

Strap in for a thread about the hugely sexist messaging on children's clothing at @Primark. The store I popped into was in Chester but of course it's a nationwide chain.

Let's begin with the messages girls are being hammered with. https://t.co/nH4muQvFds

Females must Keep on Smiling. https://t.co/oJPw4rIgWj

They are urged to BE GOOD and DO GOOD. https://t.co/KDAmLtqjgS

To be full of HAPPINESS. https://t.co/bitGHHrTOD

Kind and Happy. https://t.co/kevOuwTvs5

To Dance on the rainbow (?) https://t.co/sfTWZL2UX5

To be an OPTIMIST. https://t.co/JGExRZkvcX

To be POSITIVE. https://t.co/3aBRXzwZX2

To Grow positive thoughts. https://t.co/4NkGXdbatj

To be GRATEFUL (again). https://t.co/MoESKMJVEA

To be GRATEFUL, HUMBLE and OPTIMISTIC. https://t.co/XR97gxpLlj

To be full of joy. https://t.co/oQEgeK1wpm

To know that KINDNESS ALWAYS WINS. https://t.co/LN3PLzagcm

To NEVER STOP BEING MAGICAL. https://t.co/Af5SmqBI5R

To be POSITIVE (again!!). https://t.co/RjD418DlPu

To LOVE LOVE. https://t.co/fiEl4BTn3k

To be full of KINDNESS. https://t.co/sotjk1xAMX

To be "always perfect". https://t.co/QXKXgafwDe

To give off only GOOD VIBES. https://t.co/wXkJlxyYTq

To exude Peace and Love. https://t.co/eIL2nAtWS1

Again to BE KIND. https://t.co/7u2nhUugBI

To spread MORE JOY. https://t.co/KgvFPtmTQ8

And to CHOOSE HAPPY.

This was all in just three stands. I spent 5 minutes looking. https://t.co/HF7UOzWvtn

I'll add what I found in the boys' section after tea. But needless to say there was *nothing* about the need to be loving, kind, grateful, joyful, perfect or positive. Absolutely nothing.

The message to little girls is BE COMPLIANT AND PASSIVE. Always think of others. Put on a pleasant, smiling face for that is your job in the world.

Right, let's look at what messages @Primark are pushing at little boys, in contrast. https://t.co/odd189ySv6

Adventure awaits! https://t.co/Nxp30nSZnc

CHANGE THE GAME. REWRITE THE RULES. GO FOR IT. BORN TO WIN. https://t.co/NXsfoy9Mgb

EXPLORE. NOTHING HOLDING YOU BACK. https://t.co/EiCYNRNgKU

YOU ARE LIMITLESS. https://t.co/JZ5bVtXfIA

You are the FUTURE. https://t.co/xn14Zvh9z8

ICON (again). https://t.co/xRZ7clo4om

AUTHENTIC LEGACY. https://t.co/Nlj1u2reWN

MAKE THE RULES. https://t.co/Pg0pzHtUqd

AWESOME ADVENTURES. https://t.co/FE1o9ZNQsD

Have a WORLDWIDE VISION. https://t.co/tG7qUs615G

Can anyone spot a difference in tone here? A difference in narrative? Boys are awesome in themselves and don't need to consider anyone else. Boys are about *doing* and girls are about *feeling*. Boys take what they want; girls consider others.

It's INCREDIBLY SEXIST and outdated and unhelpful to both boys and girls.

Stop telling girls their place is to serve others! Stop telling boys they should have nothing to do with kindness and love!

What are you, a throwback to the 1950s??

If you're interested in this topic, please check out @letclothesbe, @LetToysBeToys and @LiftingLimitsUK.

More of my threads here. https://t.co/YI0dyJHtRC

Sun Feb 06 18:38:21 +0000 2022